Self Esteem Coaching

How we perceive ourself, determines the quality of our life. Our self esteem influences how people treat us, and even how we treat our own selves.    

Many factors may have influenced your Self Esteem, and usually without you even knowing it. The environment you were raised in, what you were taught, what you observed and experienced, how you were treated, and especially traumatic events that may have occurred in your personal life.   

If you were raised in poverty, you may subconsciously equate wealth and abundance as being bad; So you would naturally gravitate towards lack and poverty. You would mindlessly waste things, overlook profitable ventures, and even reject good opportunities for advancement, because you wouldn’t be able to ‘see’ the value in them. In fact, many things that would cause profitability and good value to come to you, would be seen as bad and not worth it to you; because your mind would be fixated upon sustaining poverty.   

If you were never told that you are beautiful, or you were rarely complimented, then you may not feel valuable , or attractive. This can cause you to lose out on romantic encounters; it can even stop you from finding good quality friends. If you were raised amid an unorganized household, always struggling to find your belongings, then this could cause you to struggle to excel professionally. Because you would have cultivated habbits that are grossly incompatible for good productivity.  

But if you grew up in a strict home, always hearing ‘NO!’, ‘STOP THAT!’, ‘PUT THAT BACK!’, ‘YOU CAN’T GO!’, or if you were spanked a lot, then your life may feel stuck, or less than. This generally establishes deep-seated resentment for the higher-ups. This may cause you to experience nasty friction with authority figures; your boss, the government, doctors, the police, and even your landlord. Can you see how this unresolved issue can easily bring about great personal conflicts in your life?   

Additionally, the food you eat, the tv programs you watch, the music you listen to on a regular basis, the company you hang around, and even your current living circumstances right now, can all powerfully influence the quality of the image you hold of yourself. Simply because we are social beings by nature, so parts of who we are, derive definition  from our external stimuli as well.   

You may begin to feel inferior or less than, if you ever lose your job, or if you had a loving relationship that went sour, or even if you’re not living in a decent neighborhood. If you’re child is performing poorly in school, you could convince yourself that you’re a bad parent, and therefore, a bad person.   Do bad people deserve good things? Does a bad person deserve jail, or death and sickness? Someone who identifies theirself as bad, will attract horrible conditions and circumstances into their life. Simply, because they believe that they are bad people. Therefore, they deserve bad things to happen to them. 

Understand, that when you have a damaged self-image, the world may not respect you or value you appropriately. This means, you could lose out on job opportunities and good promotions. You could lose out on good romantic opportunities, housing opportunities and even business opportunities. Because you won’t see yourself as worthy or good enough to have them, when you don't hold a healthy Self image.  

My Self Esteem Coaching Service seeks to enhance the way you think about yourself.  Coaching in this area, consist of examining the story of who you are right now, and then deliberately re-telling that story in a favorable light. This is what will reinvent a new version of you!   

Expect to walk away with a new perspective of yourself, and of the world. People are going to respect you, honor you, value you, and life is going to begin to reshape itself for you. Expect new doors to open, and new opportunities to present themselves to you. Because you are not the same person you once were before!  Obviously, this does not happen over night; so you must be patient, as you work to transform your life. You will notice little shifts over time, though. The most important thing to understand is, that you must be willing to do the inner work first.   This service is a great personal investment for anybody seeking improved quality in their personal and professional life.